tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1445618500738019321.post4705423581334969545..comments2012-02-08T07:58:09.557-08:00Comments on Livinglife: Wonderful was short now devastated for the second time. ( Blighted ovum? )Angie Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09592721942177422906noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1445618500738019321.post-19356652925749608882010-08-07T06:34:09.400-07:002010-08-07T06:34:09.400-07:00Hi Angie,
Just wanted you to know that I am thinki...Hi Angie,<br />Just wanted you to know that I am thinking about you and hoping that you continue to believe. Good things are meant for you...stay as positive as you can be. ((hugs))Alissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12882996116989596706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1445618500738019321.post-21841210727074326392010-08-06T20:59:43.507-07:002010-08-06T20:59:43.507-07:00Angie, my heart knows the pain you feel right now....Angie, my heart knows the pain you feel right now. PLEASE don't loose hope. In my last pregnancy, the same thing happend!! I refused to accept it and believed for my miracle. Refuse what the machine shows and believe that your child is growing as you read this. I am going to pray for you right now....<br /><br />GOD Bless.Jennifer Rosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14619769165667422761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1445618500738019321.post-86984027413319257722010-08-06T19:41:50.202-07:002010-08-06T19:41:50.202-07:00This info came to me and placed a huge weight on m...This info came to me and placed a huge weight on my chest, as all I can do is pray that this doesnt happen again. It was truly a miracle for you to get pregnant again, and I just pray this miracle hangs on....with you and wrapping you in lots of love no matter what....love nan xxxNan & Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04379229157112328310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1445618500738019321.post-62198182701763468802010-08-04T20:04:05.421-07:002010-08-04T20:04:05.421-07:00I am coming here from Andrea's blog. I am pra...I am coming here from Andrea's blog. I am praying for you. xoxo....I dont have words either...I just hope there is a miracle for you (((((hugs))))))Antoinettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16345208031210597597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1445618500738019321.post-8345861637169839162010-08-04T18:43:25.232-07:002010-08-04T18:43:25.232-07:00Sweet Angie...I am praying for your miracle. Send...Sweet Angie...I am praying for your miracle. Sending you hugs and love.Tabithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17454520168336289589noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1445618500738019321.post-10731568120218579232010-08-04T15:33:43.955-07:002010-08-04T15:33:43.955-07:00I don't have words, just wanting to tell you t...I don't have words, just wanting to tell you that I am sorry and thinking about you.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14795924138335289826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1445618500738019321.post-60902343565192950722010-08-04T11:22:15.575-07:002010-08-04T11:22:15.575-07:00Angie,
I am wrapping my arms around you. I know th...Angie,<br />I am wrapping my arms around you. I know that it is hard to have hope at a moment like this, but know that i am hoping for you and holding you up. Eventhough moments like this i don't feel it, i still believe miracles can happen. As you said the odds of getting pg naturally were low but you still got pg. So i have hope for you my friend. Sending you love and praying for you . HUGSShandreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09940325534777199906noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1445618500738019321.post-20209496550857914712010-08-04T10:29:17.979-07:002010-08-04T10:29:17.979-07:00Oh Angie, I'm so sorry. I know that utter fee...Oh Angie, I'm so sorry. I know that utter feeling of dispare following a second loss, it's like it sucks the wind right out of your sails and takes your hope from you. There is nothing more that I can do so say that will make it better, other than telling you that I love you immensely and wish I was where I could hug you and let you vent out all of your feelings to someone who understands in person! I was soooo angry with God after my second loss, I've learned since that it's because I had no where to place my anger, but I've read a few books that helped, let me know if you want the titles!!<br /><br />Sending you so much love and so many prayers!Denihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16241957159520703116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1445618500738019321.post-79855023391529912052010-08-04T10:16:58.212-07:002010-08-04T10:16:58.212-07:00I'm so, so sorry Angie, that you are going thr...I'm so, so sorry Angie, that you are going through this right now. My heart aches for you and I wish I had some wonderful words of wisdom, but just don't. It hurts, and anger and disappointment are absolutely part of it all.<br /><br />I am angry that I DID start trying earlier--over 11 years ago--and yet, here I am--STILL...a mother but without the little one to show for it and desperately praying to get to the other side where I will.<br /><br />And yet...sort of like Andrea, I'm not necessarily angry at God--just more angry in general...that people suffer like this when others just go through life in oblivion and ignorance.<br /><br />I have to say though that because you do have the option of the ICSI/IVF, there's still something to hold onto, as hard as it may be. I know it's scary to make the decisions as to where to go, but once made, I pray you will have some peace, whatever the decision is.<br /><br />But mostly right now, I am praying for you and that when you go back to the doctor, you see a stronger pole and what you should be seeing for this stage. I am praying for you and your precious little one.<br />xoxoLorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1445618500738019321.post-19293737363102434992010-08-04T08:40:36.239-07:002010-08-04T08:40:36.239-07:00Precious Friend,
I sit here in tears and pray for...Precious Friend,<br /><br />I sit here in tears and pray for you. My heart is aching for you and your thoughts resonate so much of what I have been feeling lately. You are in an awful place of wanting to be hopefull, yet guarding your heart and trying to keep your composure.<br /><br />You asked "how do I go to work and act normal"? There is no way possible to go to work and behave normally. Harboring these emotions would not be somthing I would recommend. I know your patients need you at work, but you also have to take care of yourself. The better you are to yourself, the better you will be to others. <br /><br />Also, you mentioned being angry at God and I relate. I am not necessarily angry at God, but do find myself angry in general. Angry that I am faced with repeated disappointment and that things simply are not going according to MY PLAN. I've always been the woman who had a back up plan to my back up plan and now I have no control, which makes me angry. <br /><br />I wish there were something that I could do for you. Take you for a cup of tea, give you a HUG and just tell you that you WILL make it through this. Life just does not go according to plan sometimes and that is so incredibly cruel. <br /><br />However, don't give up completely, stay as positive as you can and I am going to pray for you and Dave and your baby. As for the questions of not trying earlier, I have those too and want to write a post on my blog about my feelings. Perhaps you can get in for a session with your therapist and talk through these angry emotions. I'm working on getting an appointment myself, as I can no longer do this alone...its just too hard.<br /><br />Praying for you my sweet friend. I am here for you in any way that you need me. And, I will be thinking of you as you remember your Father.<br /><br />Love to you,<br />AndreaAndreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06709001842788289402noreply@blogger.com